{"id":1151,"date":"2022-12-19T12:35:00","date_gmt":"2022-12-19T12:35:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/d66.nl\/amstelveen\/nieuws\/"},"modified":"2022-12-19T16:35:06","modified_gmt":"2022-12-19T16:35:06","slug":"wintercolumn-19-december-2022-rolf-koning","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/d66.nl\/amstelveen\/nieuws\/wintercolumn-19-december-2022-rolf-koning","title":{"rendered":"Wintercolumn #1 &#8211; december 2022 &#8211; Rolf Koning"},"content":{"rendered":"<div\n  id=\"\"\n  class=\"wrapper  wrapper__spacing-bottom-large--50 wrapper__spacing-bottom-desktop--66 wrapper__spacing-bottom-mobile--76  wrapper__gutter--none\"\n  >\n  \t<div class=\"wrapper__container wrapper__container-width-large--default\">\n\t  <div class=\"wrapper__inner wrapper__width-large--14 wrapper__width-desktop--20 wrapper__width-mobile--24 wrapper__offset-large--6 wrapper__offset-desktop--4 wrapper__offset-mobile--0\">\n\t\t<h1 class=\"heading   heading__size--giant heading__font--serif heading__weight--regular  block-heading__heading\" id=\"nav-wintercolumn--1---rolf-koning---december-20224742\"  data-nav-heading-mobile=\"Wintercolumn #1 - Rolf Koning - december 2022\" >\n\tWintercolumn #1 &#8211; Rolf Koning &#8211; december 2022<\/h1>\t  <\/div>\n\t<\/div>\n  <\/div>\n\n\n<div\n  id=\"\"\n  class=\"wrapper  wrapper__spacing-bottom-large--50 wrapper__spacing-bottom-mobile--40  wrapper__gutter--none\"\n  >\n  \t<div class=\"wrapper__container wrapper__container-width-large--default\">\n\t  <div class=\"wrapper__inner wrapper__width-large--13 wrapper__width-desktop--22 wrapper__width-mobile--24 wrapper__offset-large--6 wrapper__offset-desktop--2 wrapper__offset-mobile--0\">\n\t\t<p\n\t\tclass=\"paragraph   paragraph__size--big   block-paragraph__paragraph\"\n\t\t\t>\n\t\tWat vinden jullie er eigenlijk van?\t<\/p>\t  <\/div>\n\t<\/div>\n  <\/div>\n\n\n<div\n  id=\"\"\n  class=\"wrapper  wrapper__spacing-bottom-large--20  wrapper__gutter--none\"\n  >\n  \t<div 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wrapper__offset-desktop--2 wrapper__offset-mobile--0\">\n\t\t<section class=\"block-post-content\">\n\t<div class=\"block-post-content__title\">\n\t\t<h3 class=\"heading  heading__color--black heading__size--medium heading__font--sans heading__weight--bold  block-post-content__heading\" id=\"nav-6085\" data-nav-heading-mobile=\"\">\n\t<\/h3>\t<\/div>\n\t<div class=\"block-post-content__content\">\n\t\t\n<div\n  id=\"\"\n  class=\"wrapper  wrapper__spacing-bottom-large--30 wrapper__spacing-bottom-desktop--20  wrapper__gutter--none\"\n  >\n  \t<div class=\"wrapper__container wrapper__container-width-large--default\">\n\t  <div class=\"wrapper__inner wrapper__width-large--24 wrapper__width-mobile--24\">\n\t\t<p\n\t\tclass=\"paragraph paragraph__align--left paragraph__color--black paragraph__size--default   block-paragraph__paragraph\"\n\t\t\t>\n\t\t\u201cHeb je het hun zelf wel eens gevraagd?&#8221;<br><br>\u201c\u2026.uhh, nee eigenlijk niet\u201d.<br><br>Dit gesprek had ik een tijdje terug met een goede vriend. <br>Het resulteerde uiteindelijk in zijn scheiding. Pijnlijk, maar wel onvermijdelijk.\t<\/p>\t  <\/div>\n\t<\/div>\n  <\/div>\n\n\t<\/div>\n\n\t<div class=\"block-post-content__sidebar\">\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n<\/section>\n\t  <\/div>\n\t<\/div>\n  <\/div>\n\n\n<div\n  id=\"\"\n  class=\"wrapper  wrapper__spacing-bottom-large--50 wrapper__spacing-bottom-desktop--70 wrapper__spacing-bottom-mobile--50  wrapper__gutter--none\"\n  >\n  \t<div class=\"wrapper__container wrapper__container-width-large--default\">\n\t  <div class=\"wrapper__inner wrapper__width-large--18 wrapper__width-desktop--22 wrapper__width-mobile--24 wrapper__offset-large--6 wrapper__offset-desktop--2 wrapper__offset-mobile--0\">\n\t\t<section class=\"block-post-content\">\n\t<div class=\"block-post-content__title\">\n\t\t<h3 class=\"heading  heading__color--black heading__size--medium heading__font--sans heading__weight--bold  block-post-content__heading\" id=\"nav-4535\" data-nav-heading-mobile=\"\">\n\t<\/h3>\t<\/div>\n\t<div class=\"block-post-content__content\">\n\t\t\n<div\n  id=\"\"\n  class=\"wrapper  wrapper__spacing-bottom-large--30 wrapper__spacing-bottom-desktop--20  wrapper__gutter--none\"\n  >\n  \t<div class=\"wrapper__container wrapper__container-width-large--default\">\n\t  <div class=\"wrapper__inner wrapper__width-large--24 wrapper__width-mobile--24\">\n\t\t<p\n\t\tclass=\"paragraph paragraph__align--left paragraph__color--black paragraph__size--default   block-paragraph__paragraph\"\n\t\t\t>\n\t\tWaar het hier om ging was het al jaren slepende gedonder binnen het huwelijk van mijn vriend. Diverse lijmpogingen, goedbedoelde maar vaak negatief uitpakkende bemoeienis van vrienden en familie, en huwelijkscoaches ten spijt, ging zijn relatie steeds verder <em>downhill<\/em>. <br><br>Het tot een definitieve breuk laten komen durfde hij echter niet. Er waren namelijk ook puberende kinderen binnen het gezin. En mijn vriend kon het vooral \u2018voor hen\u2019 niet over zijn hart verkrijgen om te scheiden. Dit zei hij mij elke keer als ik dacht dat hun ruzies zodanig waren ge\u00ebscaleerd dat er geen andere uitweg meer was.\t<\/p>\t  <\/div>\n\t<\/div>\n  <\/div>\n\n\t<\/div>\n\n\t<div class=\"block-post-content__sidebar\">\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n<\/section>\n\t  <\/div>\n\t<\/div>\n  <\/div>\n\n\n<div\n  id=\"\"\n  class=\"wrapper  wrapper__spacing-bottom-large--50 wrapper__spacing-bottom-desktop--70 wrapper__spacing-bottom-mobile--50  wrapper__gutter--none\"\n  >\n  \t<div class=\"wrapper__container wrapper__container-width-large--default\">\n\t  <div class=\"wrapper__inner wrapper__width-large--18 wrapper__width-desktop--22 wrapper__width-mobile--24 wrapper__offset-large--6 wrapper__offset-desktop--2 wrapper__offset-mobile--0\">\n\t\t<section class=\"block-post-content\">\n\t<div class=\"block-post-content__title\">\n\t\t<h3 class=\"heading  heading__color--black heading__size--medium heading__font--sans heading__weight--bold  block-post-content__heading\" id=\"nav-2619\" data-nav-heading-mobile=\"\">\n\t<\/h3>\t<\/div>\n\t<div class=\"block-post-content__content\">\n\t\t\n<div\n  id=\"\"\n  class=\"wrapper  wrapper__spacing-bottom-large--30 wrapper__spacing-bottom-desktop--20  wrapper__gutter--none\"\n  >\n  \t<div class=\"wrapper__container wrapper__container-width-large--default\">\n\t  <div class=\"wrapper__inner wrapper__width-large--24 wrapper__width-mobile--24\">\n\t\t<p\n\t\tclass=\"paragraph paragraph__align--left paragraph__color--black paragraph__size--default   block-paragraph__paragraph\"\n\t\t\t>\n\t\tTot het moment dat ik dus aan hem vroeg of hij het er wel eens met de kinderen zelf over had gehad, en het hun \u2018gewoon\u2019 had gevraagd. Niet alleen voor mijn vriend en ook zijn vrouw, maar ook voor hun kinderen leek me de ontstane situatie niet gezond. <br><br>Het jarenlange proces van geschreeuw moest inmiddels bijna wel zijn sporen achter hebben gelaten. En dus leek het mij niet raar dat hij het eens een keer juist ook hun zelf zou vragen wat ze van een scheiding zouden vinden. Uiteraard wel ook met de uitleg wat de consequenties zouden zijn; een onzekere tijd op de kortere termijn, en veel \u2018anders\u2019 daarna, maar dus hopelijk wel ook een betere toekomst op de langere termijn.\t<\/p>\t  <\/div>\n\t<\/div>\n  <\/div>\n\n\t<\/div>\n\n\t<div class=\"block-post-content__sidebar\">\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n<\/section>\n\t  <\/div>\n\t<\/div>\n  <\/div>\n\n\n<div\n  id=\"\"\n  class=\"wrapper  wrapper__spacing-bottom-large--50 wrapper__spacing-bottom-desktop--70 wrapper__spacing-bottom-mobile--50  wrapper__gutter--none\"\n  >\n  \t<div class=\"wrapper__container wrapper__container-width-large--default\">\n\t  <div class=\"wrapper__inner wrapper__width-large--18 wrapper__width-desktop--22 wrapper__width-mobile--24 wrapper__offset-large--6 wrapper__offset-desktop--2 wrapper__offset-mobile--0\">\n\t\t<section class=\"block-post-content\">\n\t<div class=\"block-post-content__title\">\n\t\t<h3 class=\"heading  heading__color--black heading__size--medium heading__font--sans heading__weight--bold  block-post-content__heading\" id=\"nav-8242\" data-nav-heading-mobile=\"\">\n\t<\/h3>\t<\/div>\n\t<div class=\"block-post-content__content\">\n\t\t\n<div\n  id=\"\"\n  class=\"wrapper  wrapper__spacing-bottom-large--30 wrapper__spacing-bottom-desktop--20  wrapper__gutter--none\"\n  >\n  \t<div class=\"wrapper__container wrapper__container-width-large--default\">\n\t  <div class=\"wrapper__inner wrapper__width-large--24 wrapper__width-mobile--24\">\n\t\t<p\n\t\tclass=\"paragraph paragraph__align--left paragraph__color--black paragraph__size--default   block-paragraph__paragraph\"\n\t\t\t>\n\t\t Zo gezegd, zo gedaan. Mijn vriend en zijn vrouw zijn het gesprek aangegaan met hun kinderen, en ondanks de tranen en de schok, bleken zij eigenlijk vooral opgelucht dat hun ouders hen eindelijk naar hun mening vroegen. En dat ze dus konden zeggen wat al het geruzie met hen had gedaan. <br>En ook hoezeer zij net als hun ouders snakten naar rust. Een rust zonder ruzies. Een rust zonder de al veel te lang durende onzekerheid. <br>Ondanks hun voor een groot deel van de buitenwereld ogenschijnlijk gelukkige leventje voelden zij al veel te lang dat er een risico was dat hun ouders uit elkaar zouden gaan, en hing dat risico al heel lang als het zwaard van Damocles boven hun hoofden.<br><br>De hele situatie rondom mijn vriend zijn huwelijk en vooral ook het betrekken van zijn kinderen bij de beslissing over wel of niet scheiden heeft mij aan het denken gezet. Waarom betrekken we kinderen eigenlijk sowieso niet veel meer bij allerlei zaken waar ze prima iets van mogen en kunnen vinden?\t<\/p>\t  <\/div>\n\t<\/div>\n  <\/div>\n\n\t<\/div>\n\n\t<div class=\"block-post-content__sidebar\">\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n<\/section>\n\t  <\/div>\n\t<\/div>\n  <\/div>\n\n\n<div\n  id=\"\"\n  class=\"wrapper  wrapper__spacing-bottom-large--50 wrapper__spacing-bottom-desktop--70 wrapper__spacing-bottom-mobile--50  wrapper__gutter--none\"\n  >\n  \t<div class=\"wrapper__container wrapper__container-width-large--default\">\n\t  <div class=\"wrapper__inner wrapper__width-large--18 wrapper__width-desktop--22 wrapper__width-mobile--24 wrapper__offset-large--6 wrapper__offset-desktop--2 wrapper__offset-mobile--0\">\n\t\t<section class=\"block-post-content\">\n\t<div class=\"block-post-content__title\">\n\t\t<h3 class=\"heading  heading__color--black heading__size--medium heading__font--sans heading__weight--bold  block-post-content__heading\" id=\"nav-5911\" data-nav-heading-mobile=\"\">\n\t<\/h3>\t<\/div>\n\t<div class=\"block-post-content__content\">\n\t\t\n<div\n  id=\"\"\n  class=\"wrapper  wrapper__spacing-bottom-large--30 wrapper__spacing-bottom-desktop--20  wrapper__gutter--none\"\n  >\n  \t<div class=\"wrapper__container wrapper__container-width-large--default\">\n\t  <div class=\"wrapper__inner wrapper__width-large--24 wrapper__width-mobile--24\">\n\t\t<p\n\t\tclass=\"paragraph paragraph__align--left paragraph__color--black paragraph__size--default   block-paragraph__paragraph\"\n\t\t\t>\n\t\tVanaf de zomervakantie ben ik extra goed gaan luisteren naar de meningen en idee\u00ebn van mijn kinderen over wat er allemaal in de wereld speelt op dit moment. Dat is immers nogal wat. En ook is het vrijwel allemaal erg complex. <br>Wat zijn nou precies de oorzaken van de oorlog tussen Rusland en Oekra\u00efne? En de energiecrisis, en ga zo maar door. En wat zijn de consequenties van dat alles? En hoe moeten en kunnen we hier nou eigenlijk mee omgaan? Als individu maar ook als collectief.<br><br>Wat mij blij verraste is dat mijn dochter van 16 en zoon van 13 eigenlijk een veel duidelijker mening hadden dan ik dacht, en zich ook prima bewust bleken van de diverse scenario\u2019s en de mogelijke korte \u00e9n de langetermijnconsequenties.<br>Maar wat ik mij vervolgens ook realiseerde is dat zij in dit alles totaal geen stem hebben. Geen enkele stem. Niet over de energiecrisis, niet over de oorlog in Oekra\u00efne, niet over de inflatie, niet over corona\u2026.nergens over. En dat terwijl zij uiteindelijk meer geraakt zullen worden door de beslissingen die wij daar nu over nemen dan het gros van ons, de wel-stemgerechtigden. <br><br>Al die grote issues zullen tot beslissingen op korte termijn leiden met enorme consequenties, en vooral ook op de langere termijn. Zeg maar op de toekomst van onze kinderen. En vaak minder op die van mij, als persoon die tegen de tijd dat de consequenties van die beslissingen zich openbaren, al lang \u2018het gras van de onderkant aan het bekijken is\u2019.<br><br>Ik zou dan ook een lans willen breken voor het geven van stemrecht aan kinderen!<br>Maar vanaf welke leeftijd dan zie ik u denken. Laten we eens beginnen bij 16 zoals onlangs nog bepaald is in Nieuw-Zeeland bijvoorbeeld. Maar misschien moet er \u00fcberhaupt geen algemene leeftijdsgrens meer gelden, maar kunnen kinderen eerder nog dan 16 stemgerechtigd worden op basis van het succesvol afleggen van een vrijwillig stem-examen. Daarmee zouden we immers ook nog eens veel meer recht doen aan het verschil in ontwikkeling van ieder individueel kind.<br><br>In Amstelveen hebben we met Lode gelukkig al een super Kinderburgermeester, samen met een zeer capabele Kinderraad. Maar laten we kijken hoe we onze Amstelveense kinderen nog meer kunnen gaan betrekken bij de beslissingen die we hier nemen, en ook kijken hoe we hun straks een echte stem kunnen geven, als formeel stemgerechtigde!<br><br><em>Dus\u2026 heb jij het hun al gevraagd? Zij zijn het waard en ze kunnen het. 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